The
Kindness Challenge by Shaunti
Feldhahn is more than I thought it would be. Feldhahn admits that it’s
basic: in the first chapter, she reveals the three aspects of the Kindness
Challenge.
The simple challenge
includes saying only positive words about the person the reader seeks to have
an improved relationship with, intentionally praising the person, and performing
acts of kindness for the person.
But, simple does not
equate with easy. And for that reason, likely the same reason the book exists,
I kept reading.
Feldhahn fills her book
with anecdotes from people who’ve taken the Kindness Challenge, and she
displays statistics showing rates of improvement in various relationships. Most
of the examples that Feldhahn gives are from husbands and wives, but the
Kindness Challenge can apply to any relationship.
The books ends with three
step-by-step instructions for how to complete the Kindness Challenge: one set
for a husband completing the challenge for a wife, one set for a wife
completing the challenge for a husband, and one set for anyone.
While the book could
have ended after chapter one, the anecdotes and tips that Feldhahn gives are
genuinely helpful for someone intentionally seeking to improve a relationship—especially
a notably
starved or hostile one.
"I received this book from Blogging for Books for this review."